Posted by: Brooke Neugebauer | June 15, 2009

Oh, boy. You can handle it! That is why we are moms.

“Oh, boy. You can handle it! That is why we are moms.” This was said to me from a friend in response to my status today on Facebook. It was in response to me mentioning that my son was still sick but doing much better, and that my dog had surgery today from under her chin to between her legs in search of what was causing her not to be able to keep food or water down.

It’s been a long couple of days being couped up in the house with a sick baby boy, a dog who keeps throwing up and a ton of work to do. I am really warn out. I have company coming tomorrow and so much crud built up on my wood floors that I may need to clean them by hand. I haven’t worked yet today so I have that to look forward to after my son goes to sleep.

My arms feel so heavy I’m not sure I can do much else then to work on my computer, zone out in front of the tv, or to just go to bed.

I will start my 3rd trimester this week. Am I ready? Can I handle being a mom to two boys, two cats and a dog? Can I handle being a wife, care taker, and majority of the time the house cleaner?? I will say at least I’m lucky enough to have a husband who does the cooking and does his own laundry!! He will even help with all of the above. I love him so much.

Ok, gotta go. My son is screaming so hard right now that he is making himself sick. I think it’s just to get my attention.

… A couple of hours later… I did it! I vacuumed a ton, I mopped a ton, I cleaned a toilet, a sink a mirror, and I even took the Magic Eraser over a ton of tiny little finger prints! I am officially whooped but I feel satisfied that I got started on a task that seemed a like HUGE mountain and now I am actually energized and my husband made me stop cleaning because I was becoming obsessive.

Thanks for the encourage words that kept me going!!!

Night
:)


Responses

  1. I’m rooting for you! I have four boys, and as babies they were gradually easier to care for. Hopefully it’ll be the same for you! And remember, no matter how tough it can be, there’s nothing more wonderful than having a family to care for. We’re lucky!

    • Estracized! I think you may have saved my sanity this evening. Your encouraging words were just what I needed to hear and to be reminded of! Thank you so much for taking the time to share them with me!!

  2. I remember being pregnant with my second and thinking how the heck I was going to do this toddler/baby thing. My mother gave me a quote that I still use to this day (and I went on to have another – 3 in total)… “you don’t know the strengths that you have.” So true…I didn’t know how strong I was until it was tested. So stay tough! I promise…it gets A LOT easier!

    • Thanks for your support Julianne! Your Mom’s words sound like really good ones, but it just doesn’t seem possible just yet! I wish at times that I could see a glimpse forward once in a while just to keep me going. But in the mean time, I will take the support and encouraging words from others who have been where I am and are on the other side now looking back. Some day I’ll be able to encourage a newer mom too!

  3. I agree with your friends comment on your facebook’s status. You can definitely make it because you are a mom.

    • Thanks Patrice! I’m going to take it that you are speaking from experienced!


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